1.0
mDgtk;
Nkhp vd;gtH tz;lY}H gFjpay; trpg;gtH@
taJ 45. jpUkzk; Mfp 25
Mz;Lfs; Kbe;J tpl;ld. fztH muR kUj;Jtkidapd; Ma;Tf; $lj;jpy;
filepiyg; gzpahsuhf gzpahw;wp
,g;NghJjhd; Xa;T ngw;wpUf;fpwhH. ,tHfSf;F
4 gps;isfs; (3 kfs;fSk; xU kfDk;)
,Uf;fpd;wdH. Nkhpf;Fk; mtuJ
fztUf;Fk; R%fkhd cwT ,Ue;jjpy;iy.
gps;isfis tsHf;f Nkhp kpfTk; Jd;Gw;whs;.
gyhpd; cjtpahYk; nrhe;j ge;jq;fspd; MjutpdhYk; ,tHfs; midtUf;Fk; gs;spf; fy;tp
fpilj;jJ. ngaustpy; fztH. kidtp,
gps;isfs; vy;yhk; xU
,j;Jg; Nghd $iu tPl;by; FbapUf;f ,tH kl;Lk; ,tUf;nfd;W jdpahf xU miwiaf; fl;bf;nfhz;L
thOk; miwf;Fg; ngaH “fpUig
,y;yk;” ,tH mjpy; jpUkzkfhj
gpuk;kr;rhhp Nghy; jdpj;J tho;if elj;JfpwhH.
FLk;gj;jpw;nfd;W gzk; nfhLg;gjpy;iy@
ahiug; gw;wpAk; ftiy gl;ljpy;iy.
jhd; cz;L jdJ Ntiy cz;L vd;W ,Uf;ff; $batH. mbf;fb ez;gHfSld; NrHe;J cy;yhr gazk; nry;tJz;L.
je;ijapd; guhkhpg;G ,y;yhky; ,Ue;J
te;jjhy; Kjy; ,uz;L kfs;fSk; jq;fspd; rk;kjk; ,y;yhky; jhq;fs; fhjypj;jtNuhL Xbg; Ngha; jpUkzk;
nra;J nfhz;L FLk;gkhf tho;f;if elj;jp tUfpd;wdH. kfd; VNjh xU njhopw;rhiyapy; rpwpa
Cjpaj;jpw;fhf Ntiy nra;J jdJ jhiaAk; jq;ifiaAk; fhg;ghw;wp tUfpwhd;. ngaustpy; FLk;gk; MdhYk; cwTf;fhd
ntspg;ghby;iy. ,f;FLk;gj;jpd; vjpHfhyk;
vd;d? Nkhpapd; fztUf;F FbNehNah jfhj cwNth ,y;iy. ed;whf Ntiy nra;jtH ve;j nfl;l gof;fKk;
,y;iy. Mdhy; FLk;gj;ijr; rhpahf
ftdpf;fhjjhy; ,f;FLk;gNk ,d;W $dpf; Fdpe;J epw;fjpaha; cs;sJ.
vdJ ez;ghpd; jq;iff;Fj; jpUkzk; Mfp 4
Mz;Lfspy; kzKwpT Vw;gl;lJ.
,j;jk;gjpapdUf;F xU ngz; Foe;ijAz;L.
fhjy; jpUkzkhf ,Ue;jhYk; ,g;gb
xU KbTf;F tuf;fhuzk; mf;fztdpd; ntwpr; nray;fNs. jdJ kidtpia mbf;f Muk;gpj;jhd;. gyhplk; tQ;ridahfg; Ngrp ek;g itf;Fk; mtd; xU
csg;gpzpahsp (Psychotic).
gy ngz;fSld; njhlHGs;std; vd;Wk; njhpate;jJ. jdJ jtiw kiwf;f je;jpukhfr;
nray;gl;lhYk; mtdpd; nray;ghl;il kiwf;f Kbatpy;iy.
mtd;kPJ
2 fphpkpdy; tof;F Nghl;L mjd; gpd;dNu kzKwpT fpilj;jJ. vd; ez;ghpd; jq;if ,e;j mDgq;fisf; NfhHj;J “
Two Fates: The Story of My Divorce, Westland Ltd, Chennai ,
India, 2011 ” vd;fpw E}iy vOjp ntspapl;Ls;shH. xU nghpa Jd;gj;jpypUe;J tpLjiyaile;Jtpl;ljhf
vOjpAs;shH. ,g;gbg;gl;l epfo;thy; xU gf;fk; epk;kjp. kW gf;fk; ghjpf;fg; gLgit
FLk;gq;fSk; Foe;ijfSk;@ xUtpjj;jpy; r%fNk.
1.1
Ma;Tf; Nfs;tpfs;
1. md;gpd; mbg;gilapy; njhlq;Fk; FLk;g
tho;T rPHnflf; fhuzq;fs;
ahit- rthy;fSk; gjpypUg;Gk;?
2. cwTf;F ,yf;fzkhf ,Uf;Fk;
jpUkzj;jpw;Fk; FLk;gj;jpw;Fk; Vw;gLk;
cwTr; rpf;fy;fs; ahit?
3. ntspr; rKjhak; FLk;gq;fspd; kPJ
Vw;gLj;Jk; vjpHkiwj; jhf;fq;fs; vt;thW FLk;gq;fisg; ghjpf;fpd;wd?
4. FLk;gq;fisAk; jpUkz cwTfisAk;
Fiyf;Fk; jPag; gof;fq;fs; ahit?
5. kzKwpT vg;gbnay;yhk; ghjpg;ig
Vw;gLj;Jfpd;wJ?
6. kfpo;r;rpahd FLk;g tho;Tf;F vjpuhf
,Uf;Fk; jilfs; vd;d?
2.0
Ma;T
mUl;gzpj;jsj;jpy; FLkgq;fisr;
re;jpf;Fk; NghJ gpur;rid ,y;yhj FLk;gk; vd;W ,Ue;jjpy;iy. vy;yhf; FLk;gq;fspYk;
VjhtJ gpur;rid ,Ue;J tUfpwijg; ghHj;jpUf;fpNwd;. xU FLk;gj;ijNa Fiyg;gJ vd;why; fztH-kidtp
gpur;ridjhd;. gzk; ,y;yhky; tWikapy; Jd;gg;gLNthH mjpf vz;zpf;ifapy; ,Ue;jhYk;
cwTf;F mbg;gilahd jpUkz cwtpy; tphpry;
Vw;gLtJjhd;. mbg;gilapy; kdpj tho;Tf;F Mjhukhf ,Ug;gJ mtuthpd; FLk;gNkahFk;. FLk;gk;
Fiye;J NghFk; NghJ mq;F cwtpy;yhky; mikg;G hPjpahf mbj;jsk; ,y;yhky;
Ngha;tpLfpd;wJ. kyHfSf;F moF mtw;wpd;
,jo;fNshL NrHe;jpUg;gJjhd;. ,jo;fs; cjpHe;Jtp;l;lhy; mit kyHfshf ,Uf;f KbahJ.
mJ NghyNt FLk;gq;fSf;F moF mtw;wpYs;s cwTr; rq;fpypjhd;. cwtpy;yhky; FLk;gk;
epiyf;f KbahJ.
2.1
vdJ Ma;T
vdJ mUl;gzpj;jsj;jpy; RkhH 20 FLk;gq;fisr;
re;jpj;J FLk;gq;fspy; vjdhy; gpur;rid Vw;gLfpd;wJ vd;W tpdtpNdd;. ngUk;ghyhNdhH
nrhd;dJ:
“FLk;gj;jpy; Ghpjy;
,y;yhikahy;jhd; midj;J gpur;ridfSk;
cUntLf;fpd;wd. fztH kidtpapilNa
rhpahd Ghpjy; ,Ue;jhy; FLk;g tho;T R%fkhf ,Uf;Fk;.’’
xUtH kl;Lk; ,t;thW $wpdhH:
“jhk;gj;jpa
cwT jhd; vy;yhg;; gpur;ridAk; cUntLf;fpd;wJ.
jhk;gj;jpa cwT xOq;fhf ,Ue;jhy; ve;jg;gpur;ridAk; cUntLf;fhJ”.
- rpy FLk;gq;fspy; khkpahH>
ehj;jdhH kw;Wk; fzthpd; cw;whH cwtpdHfspdhy; Vw;gLk; gpur;rid kidtpiaAk;
gps;isfisAk; ghjpf;fpd;wJ.
- gy jPag; gof;fq;fspdhYk;
rPuope;j FLk;gq;fs; ,d;Wk; cz;L.
- ,J kl;Lky;y> tujl;riz nfhLik jpUkzkhd
,sk; ngz;fspd; tho;tpd; epk;kjpiaf; nfLf;fpd;wJ.
- Gw;W Neha; kw;Wk; gy nfhba
Neha;fs; ,sk; jk;gjpaHfspd; tho;it tijf;fpd;wJ.
- jFe;j epue;ju Ntiy ,y;yhik >
NghJkhd Cjpak; ,y;yhik > nrhe;j Chpy; Ntiy ,y;yhj epiy Nghd;wg;
gpur;ridfs; epk;kjpahdf; FLk;g tho;tpw;Fr; rthyhf mikfpd;wd.
- jpUkzj;jpw;F Kd;G Vw;gl;l
cwTfshy; jpUkzj;jpw;Fg; gpd;
Vw;gLk; rpf;fy;fs;.
- jpUkzk; Md gpd;G FLk;gj;ijg;
nghWg;Gld; ftdpahj fztHfs; jq;fspd; epk;kjpia ,of;fpd;wdH.
- mbf;fb fztiu tpl;L tpl;L jdJ
ngw;NwhH tPl;bw;Fr; nry;Yk; kidtp jq;fspd; ,y;yw tho;tpw;F CW tpistpj;Jf;nfhs;fpd;wd.
- jdJ kidtp kf;fs; kPJ mf;fiu
,y;yhky; CUf;F cioj;J ey;y ngaH thq;Fk; nghJeyf; fztHfs; jq;fspd; ,y;ywf;
flikfis epiwNtw;wj; jtWtjhy; FLk;gk; rpijtjw;Ff; fhuzkhf mikfpd;wJ.
- cs Nehahspfshf ,Uf;Fk;
fztNuh> kidtpNah FLk;gr; #oiy ntFthfg; ghjpf;fpd;wdh;.
- Foe;ijapd;ik FLk;gj;jpy;
NtjidiaAk; ntWg;igAk; mjpfhpf;fpd;wJ.
- jfhj cwTfshy; FLk;gj;jpy;
tphpry; Vw;gLfpd;wJ.
- ey;y gof;ftof;fq;fSk;>
rfpg;Gj;jd;ikAk;> Vw;Wf;nfhs;SjYk; jk;gjpahplk; ,y;yhjNghJ $b tho;tjw;F
VJthf ,y;yhj epiyNa cz;lhfpd;wJ.
- tUkhdj;jpw;F Nky; nryT nra;Ak;
jk;gjpaH xUtH kw;wtiuf; Fiwf; $wp $r;rypl;L> mbf;fb rz;ilapl;L mb cij
vd;W fytuf; FLk;gkhf; fl;rpaspf;fpd;wdH.
- ,J kl;Lkpd;wp> kd cisr;ry;
Vw;glf; fuzkhf ,Uf;Fk; czHr;rpfukhd gaKWj;jy; rpy Ntisfspy; jw;nfhiyf;Ff; $l ,l;Lr;nrd;wpUf;fpd;wJ.
2.2
jw;fhyf; FLk;gq;fs;
$l;Lf; FLk;gg; gz;ghL Ngha; ,g;NghJ
vq;Fg; ghHj;jhYk; jdpf; Fbj;jdk; jhd; ngUk;ghYk; ,Uf;fpd;wJ. rpy Ntisfspy; ,it
ed;ikiaf; nfhz;L te;jhYk; ,tw;wpw;Fk; gy
FiwghLfs; ,Uf;fpd;wd. fpuhkg; Gwq;fspy;
,d;Dk; $l;Lf; FLk;gq;fs; njhlHe;J ,Ue;J
tUfpd;wd. efHg;Gwq;fspy; jdpf;Fbj;jdk;
jhd; Ml;rp nra;fpd;wJ. fztH kidtpahf jdpj;jpUf;f ,J tha;g;gspf;fpd;wJ.
“fhjypj;Jj;
jpUkzk; nra;Nthhpd; vz;zpf;if mjpfhpj;Js;sJ.”[1] rpy Ntisfspy; fhjy; jpUkzq;fs; mjpf
kzKwpTf;Fk; Mshfpd;wd.[2]
fztUk; kidtpAk; Ntiy nra;jhy;jhd; xU ey;y r%f epiyapy; tho KbAk; vd;W gzj;ijAk;
trjp tha;g;GfisAk; ngUf;Fk; Nehf;FlDk;jhd; ,d;W mjpf FLk;gq;fs; nray;gl;L
tUfpd;wd. gps;isfisr; rhptu ftdpf;f Mspy;iy.
ngz;fspd; rkj;Jtj;ijAk; rk chpikiaAk; gw;wp ,d;W mjpf tpopg;GzHT FLk;gq;fspy;
fhzg;gLfpd;wJ. fy;tpawpT gz;ghL
Nghd;wtw;wpy; Kd;Ndw;wk; ,Ue;jhYk; xUq;fpize;j FLk;g tho;T ,Uf;fpwjh vd;why; mJ
xU nghpaf; Nfs;tpf;Fwp vd;Wjhd; nrhy;y KbAk;.
tujl;riz> khkpahH nfhLik>
ngz;fSf;F vjpuhd td;nfhLik> td;GzHr;rp> rk chpikapy;yhj epiy> fzthpd; md;Gwtpd;ik Nghd;wit ,d;W FLk;gq;fis ehrk;
nra;js;sd. rpy Ntisfspy; kidtpkhHfspd; Mjpf;fk; NkNyhq;fpapUf;Fk; FLk;gq;fSk;
cs;sd. EfHTg; gz;ghL ,d;W FLk;gq;fisg;
gPbj;J epk;kjpia Fiyf;fpd;wJ. Clfq;fSk;
,d;W FLk;gq;fs; kPJ vjpHkiwj; jhf;fj;ij Vw;gLj;Jfpd;wd.
2.4 FLk;gq;fspy; Vw;gLk;
rpf;fy;fs;
vy;yhf; FLk;gq;fSNk gytpjkhd rpf;fy;fis
re;jpj;Jjhd; tUfpd;wd vd;gJ ,d;iwa vjhHj;jk;. Fwpg;ghf fztH kidtpapilNa cs;s
gpur;ridfs; ,d;W gytif. Ntfkhf XLfpd;w thof;;if ,d;W gy tpjkhd gpur;ridfis vjpHnfhz;Ls;sJ. fztH kidtpf;fpilNa cs;s gpur;ridfSf;Fg;
gy fhuzq;fs; cs;sd. jpUkz md;gpd; tsHr;rpf;F vz;zw;wj; jilfs;
cz;L. fztH - kidtp md;gpd; tsHr;rpf;F Kjy; Kf;fpa jilahf ,Ug;gJ mtHfSs; xUtH
my;yJ ,UtuJ RaeyNk. mNjhL Fiw $Wjy;>
ciuahlypd;ik> jd;kjpg;G- gpwH kjpg;G ,d;ik> mbikj;jdk; vd;W Muk;gpf;Fk;
rpf;fy; gy tpjq;fspy; ntspg;gLk;. jpUkz
cwitNa Fiyf;ff; $bajhfptpLfpd;wJ. fztd- kidtpr; rpf;fy;fis rw;W Ma;e;J ghHg;Nghk;.
2.4.1
Ghpe;J nfhs;shik
mjpfg; gbahd kf;fs; FLk;gj;jpy;
gpur;ridf;Ff; fhuzk; vd;W $WtJ fztH kidtpilNa cUntLf;Fk;
Ghpe;Jnfhs;shikahFk;. xUtH; kw;wtiu
ikakhf itj;J thohJ mLj;jtuJ kfpo;r;rpia Kjd;ikahff; fUjpr; nray;glhky;> jdJ
trjp> jdJ ,d;gk; vd;gtw;wpw;Nf Kjyplk; je;J> rpe;jpf;f> nray;gl xUtH
my;yJ ,UtUk; njhlq;FtJz;L. ,jdhy; xUtHghy; kw;wtUf;F Vkhw;wNk
kpFjpahfpd;wJ. mLj;jtH jdf;F mijr;
nra;atpy;iy ,ijr; nra;atpy;iy vDk; epiwtpd;ik mjpfhpj;J Fiw $Wjy; md;whlg; gzpahfpwJ. ,ijNa jq;fsplk; Ghpjypy;iy vd;W $Wfpd;wdH. Raeyg; ngUf;fhy;
FiwAk; md;Ng ,g;Ghpjypd;ikf;Ff; fhuzkhfpd;wJ.
Raeyk; ngUfp Fiw$Wjy; tsHe;J thHj;ij td;Kiwahd Fj;jpg; NgRjy; cUntLf;fpd;wJ. xUthpd;
FiwfisNa mLj;jtHf;Fr; Rl;bf; fhl;bf; nfhz;bUe;jhy; mtUf;Fj; jho;T kdg;ghd;ik
Vw;gLfpd;wJ. ,jdhy; kdk; Gz;gLtJ ,ay;G.
,jdhy; Vw;Wf; nfhs;shik vd;w kdepiy tsHe;J gpwiu Vw;Wf; nfhs;Sk; NtW cwTfisj;
Njlyhk;.
,t;thW ,Uf;Fk; NghJ ciuahly;
Fiwfpd;wJ. mLj;jtiu mbikahfg; ghHf;Fk;
Nghf;Fk; mjpfhpf;fpd;wJ. ,e;jr;
rpf;fy;fisf; fztH-kidtp nghJthfg; Ghpjypy;iy vd;W $WtH. Mokhfg; ghHj;jhy; ,tw;wpw;Ff; fhuzk; Raeyk;
vd;w md;Gf;nfhy;ypNa. nghJthf Ghpjypd;ikf;F
kw;wf; fhuzq;fSk; ,Uf;fyhk;. kw;wtiur; rkkhf kjpf;fhj epiyAk; ,jw;F xU Kf;fpa
fhuzkhfyhk;.
2.4.2
cwTr; rpf;fy;fs;
FLk;gj;jpd; jiyikAk; nghWg;Gk; fztH -kidtp
,UtUf;Fk; rkkhf chpaJ. FLk;gj;jpy;
Kf;fpa KbTfis vLf;Fk; mjpfhuk; mtHfs; ,UtUf;FNk ,ize;J $l;lhf nray;gLj;j Ntz;ba
xd;W. mjw;F khwhf xUtH kl;LNk mjpfhuk;
nrYj;jp mlf;fp Ms;tJ jpUkz tho;tpw;F Mgj;jhdJ.
,q;F cwTf;F ,lkpy;yhky; mbikj;jdk;jhd;
NkNyhq;FfpwJ. cwT tsHtjw;Fk; tha;g;gpy;iy.
jd; kjpg;G ,y;yhjtHfs; mLj;jtHfisAk; kjpg;gjpy;iy. jq;fis Vw;Wf;
nfhs;shjtHfs; gpwiuAk; vw;Wf; nfhs;tjpy;iy.
jd;dk;gpf;if ,y;yhjtHfs; gpwiuAk; ek;Gtjpy;iy. xUtH kw;wtiu kjpf;fhky;
mbikg;gLj;jpr; rkkhf elj;jhj NghJ ,q;F cwTr; rpf;fy; Vw;gLfpd;wJ. jq;fspd; jhd;ikia caHj;jpg; gpbj;jy; ,d;Dk;
mjpfkhd jPq;if tpistpf;fpd;wJ. cwtpy;yhky; rpf;fYila ,lj;jpy; epk;kjpapy;yhj
tho;Nt ,q;F cUntUf;fpd;wJ. R%fkhf ,Uf;f
Ntz;ba FLk;g tho;T cwTr; rpf;fyhy; gy ,d;dy;fSf;F cl;gLfpd;wJ. cwTr; rpf;fy;fis
xopf;f ey;y MNyhrfHfSk; my;yJ FLk;gj;jpd; neUq;fpa ez;gHfspd; MNyhridAk; kpfTk; gadspf;Fk;. ,y;iynad;why; NtHG+r;rp Nghd;W ,e;j cwTr;
rpf;fy;fs; FLk;gj;ijNa mhpj;JtpLk;.
2.4.3
fztH tPl;lhH gpur;ridfs;
ek; ,e;jpa R+oypYk; jkpofj;jpYk;
ngz;fs; jpUkzj;jpw;Fg; gpwF jq;fs; fzthpd; FLk;gj;Jld; tho;tJ tof;fk;. ,t;thW
thOk; NghJ fzthpd; tPl;lhH> mjhtJ fzthpd; jha;> je;ij>
mf;fhs;khHfs;> jq;iffs; mz;zd;> jk;gp kw;Wk; mf;FLk;gj;;jpy; ,UNghH
MfpNahH rpy Ntisfspy; rPuhd FLk;g tho;Tf;Fj; jilf;fw;fshf ,Ug;gJz;L. fztH-kidtpf;F ,ilNaAs;s cwtpy;
jiyapLtJ> mtHfSf;Fg; Nghjpa jdpikia Vw;gLj;jhj R+oYk>; nghwhik kw;Wk;
ghJfhg;gpd;ikia czHe;jy;> kpifg; gw;wPLghL Nghd;w czHTfshy; fztH-kidtpapilNa
rhpahd jpUkz tho;T tho VJtpy;yhj R+oy; cUntLf;fpd;wJ. fztH jd; tPl;lhUf;F
Vw;wthW nray;gLtjh my;yJ jd; kidtpapd; Ngr;irf; Nfl;gjh vd;W ,Uf;Fk; Fog;gj;jpy;
rpyH jq;fspd; kidtpiaf; fhT nfhLf;fpd;wdH.
,j;jifa R+oypy; jdpf; Fbj;jdk; xU rpwe;j topahfptpLfpd;wJ. gpur;ridr;
rpf;fypUe;J jg;g ,J xU jtpHf;f Kbahjj; jPikahfpd;wJ khkpahH ehj;jdhH nfhLikahy;
caphpoe;j kidtpkhHfSk; cz;L. khkpahH nfhLikahy; fzthpd; rhpahd epiyg;ghL vL;f;f
Kbahj jd;ikahy; FLk;gq;fs; gypahfpapUf;fpd;wd.
2.4.4
gz neUf;fb
,d;iwa fhyr; R+oypy; gzk; vd;gNj rpyhpd; Fwpf;NfhshfptpLfpd;wJ. fztH-kidtp ,UtUNk Ntiyf;Fr; nrd;W
rk;ghjpj;jhy;jhd; FLk;gj;ij xU ey;y r%f me;j];Jf;F caHj;j KbAk; vd;fpw epiyapy;
gzk;jhd; tho;tpd; Kjy; cwthff; fUjg;gLfpd;wJ.
,g;gzj;ij FLk;gj;Jld; Nghjpa Neuk; nryT nra;ahky; cwtpoe;J jq;fspd;
FLk;gj;ijNa gwpnfhLj;J jpf;fw;wtuhf ,Uf;Fk; epiyf;F Mshf;fpdH. gzk; ntspA+HfSf;F mjpff; fhyk; nry;NthH jq;fspd; kidtpia ,of;fTk;
tha;g;Gs;sJ. jhq;fSk; kw;nwhU cwitj;
Njbf; nfhs;tJk; rhj;jpak;.
2.4.5
jhk;gj;jpa tho;tpy; Vw;gLk; rpf;fy;fs;
ghYwT ,d;wpj; jpUkz tho;Nt ,y;iy
vdyhk;. jhk;gj;jpa tho;Nt jpUkz tho;tpy; ikakhf cs;sJ. ,Ug;gpDk;
mJ kl;Lk; jhd; jpUkz tho;thff;nfhs;s KbahJ.
fztH-kidtp tho;tpd; vy;yhk; gFjpfSlDk; kpf neUq;fpa njhlHG cilaJ . mtHfsJ
tho;tpd; midj;Jj; JiwfspYk; cs;s typAk; nespTk; mtHfsJ ghYwtpYk; ghjpg;Gfis
Vw;gLj;Jfpd;wd. mJ Nghy; mtHfsJ ghYwtpy;
cs;s Fiw epiwfspd; jhf;fq;fs; mtHfsJ tho;T KOtjpYk; gjpe;J glHfpd;wd. fztH-kidtpapd; jdptho;tpNyh $l;Ltho;tpNyh r%f
tho;tpNyh ve;jj; Jiwapy; gpur;rid vd;whYk; mJ mtHfsJ ghYwtpYk; XusthtJ
gpujpgypg;ghfpwJ. mtw;wpy; Vw;gLk;
kdf;FiwfSk; Kiwg;ghLfSk; mtHfsJ ghYwT ,d;gj;ijg; gOJgLj;jptpLtJz;L. ghypay;ig
ntWk; czHr;rpahf clypd; ,r;irahff; fUJNthH gyH.
,j;jifNahH kpUfntwpNahL nfhs;Sk; cwT ghYwTf;Nf ,Of;fhf mikfpd;wJ. ghYwTg; gpur;ridf;Fg; gy fhuzq;fs;
,Uf;fyhk;. ,tw;Ws; rpy ,ay;ghfj; jPHe;JtpLgit. NtWrpy fztH kidtpAk; kdk; jpwe;J Ngrpf;
nfhs;tjdhNyNa jPHe;Jtplf; $bait. ,d;Dk; rpytw;wpw;F ,j;Jiwapy; mjpf mwpTk;
mDgtKk; cs;s FLk;g csey cjtpahsiu mZfp cjtpngwyhk;.
2.4.6
nghWg;gpd;ikAk; jPag; gof;fq;fSk;
jpUkzj;jpw;F gpwF rpyH FLk;gg;
nghWg;ig czuhJ jq;fspd; nrhe;j tpUg;G ntWg;GfSf;F mjpf ,lkspj;J tUtJ FLk;g tho;itAk; fztH kidtp
cwitAk; ghjpf;fpd;wJ. nghWg;gw;w elj;ij
kw;wtiu Gz;gLj;JtJld;; cwit Kwpf;fpd;wJ.
kidtpia my;yJ fztid myl;rpak; nra;tJ> jhd; Nghd Nghf;fpy; jd; tho;f;ifia elj;JtJ FLk;g xw;Wikf;Fj;
jPq;F tpistpf;Fk;.
Fb> R+jhl;lk;> Nghijg; nghUs;
xUthpd; cly; eyj;ijg; ghjpg;gJld; kdjstpy; mjpfg; ghjpg;Gf;fis Vw;gLj;Jfpd;wd.
jfhj cwT> NtW egHfSld; cwT> tPz; re;Njfk;> cly; hPjpahd td;nfhLik>
ghypay; td;nfhLik> kw;Wk; czHTg;G+Htkhd kpul;ly;> Nghd;wit fztH-
kidtpf;fpilNa ngUk; tphpriy cz;lhf;Ffpd;wJ.
cwTk; md;Gk; ,Uf;f Ntz;ba gaKk;
mtek;gpf;ifAk; mr;RWj;JjYk; jhd; NkNyhq;fpapUf;Fk;.
,j;jifaj; jPa gof;fq;fs; clYf;Ff;
NfLtpistpg;gJld; kdjstpy; ghjpg;G
cz;lhf;Ffpd;wd. mNjhL FLk;g mikjpf;Fk;
,it NfL tpistpg;gjhy; ,tw;wpypUe;J tpLgLtJ kpf mtrpakhdJ. FbNehahy; kl;Lk; ,d;W rPuope;J Nghd
FLk;gq;fs; Vuhsk;. gpwUld; jfhj cwT
nfhz;;ljhy; gy Neha;fSf;F Mshd fztHfs; kidtpaHfSf;Fk; me;Nehiag; gutr;
nra;Js;sd. Kf;fpakhf vr;.I.tp Nghd;w capHf;
nfhy;yp Neha;fSk; gy FLk;gq;fis ehrg;
gLj;jpapUf;fpd;wd. fztDf;F my;yJ
kidtpf;F vd;W xUtUf;F kl;Lk; VNjDk; jPa gof;fNkh my;yJ NehNah ,Ue;jhNy mJ
mf;FLk;gj;ijf; Fiyj;J tpLfpd;wJ.
2.4.7
rKjhaj;jpd; jhf;fq;fs;
FLk;gq;fisr; rKjhaKk; ghjpf;fpd;wJ.
,d;iwa EfHTg; gz;ghL gyiuj; njhw;W Nehahfg; gPbj;J nghUl;fis thq;fpf;
Ftpg;gjpNy epiwT milfpd;wdH. Njit vd;W
,y;yhky;> Njitf;F NkYk; Njitg; glhj
NghJk;> xU thbf;ifahf> me;j];Jf;fhf> nghOJ Nghf;fpw;fhfg; nghUl;fis
thq;fpg; gzj;ij tPz; nra;Ak; Nghf;F ,d;iwa FLk;gq;fspy; Eioe;Js;sJ. ciog;Gf;Ff;
nfhLf;fg;gLk; gzj;ijg; gadpy;yhj tiffspy; nryT nra;J Viofspd; kPJ fhprid
,y;yhj epiyahy; jd;dy kpf;f FLk;gq;fs; ,d;W ngUfp tUfpd;wdH. Mf> nghUl;fis thq;fpj; jUk; fztHjhd;
kidtpia md;G nra;Ak; fztuhf fUjg;gLfpd;wdH.
,d;iwa tpsk;guq;fSk; Clfq;fSk;
Kd;itf;Fk; ghlk; EfHTg; gz;ghLk; cyf kakhf;fYk;jhd;. cyf kakhf;fyhy; gz;ghL rPHnfl;L xUtDf;F
xUj;jp vd;Dk; jkpoH gz;ghL ,d;W Nfs;tpf;F cs;shf;fg;Lfpd;wJ. jpUkz tho;tpy;
nghWik> epiyj;j jd;ik> gpukhzpf;fk;> fw;G Nghd;wit ,d;W Guhzf;
fijahfg; ghHf;fg;gLfpd;wd. jfty; njhopy;El;g epWtdq;fspy; gzpGhpNthhpd;
tho;f;if Kiw ,d;W ,y;yw cwTf;F kpfg;nghpa rthy;.
ek;
jkpo; kz;zpw;Nf cs;s Mzhjpf;ff; fUj;jpay; gonkhopfshd mbj;jhYk; GUrd;@
mizj;jhYk; GUrd;> rhz; gps;isahdhYk; Mz; gps;is@ fy;yhdhYk; fztd;>
Gy;yhdhYk; GUrd;> Mfpait kidtpia mlf;fpahs;tjw;F VJthf cs;sitfNs. ,j;jifa
rpe;jidAs;s r%fj;jpy; Mzhjpf;fk; NkNyhq;fpapUf;fpd;wJ@ kidtpapd; chpikfisg; gwpg;gjhfTk;
,Uf;fpd;wJ> Mz;fspd; vy;yhr; nray;fisAk; Qhag;gLj;JtjhfTk; ,Uf;fpd;wJ.
2.4.8
gq;F jsj;jpy; FLk;gq;fs;
Fl;bj; jpUr;rigahd FLk;gq;fs; gq;fpy;
jdpnahU gq;fhfg; ghHf;fg; gLfpd;wJ. gq;Ffspy;
FLk;gq;fs; xU Kf;fpa gq;F tfpf;fpd;wdH.
gq;fpy; nray;ghLfs; midj;JNk gq;F kf;fis Kd; epWj;jp jhd; mikfpd;wd. gq;fpd; Nehf;fNk fpwpj;jt FOkq;fisf; fl;bnaOg;GtJjhd;. FLk;g tho;T rpwf;fTk; fztH kidtp cwT
Nkk;glTk; gq;fpy; jpahdk;> fUj;juq;Ffs>; ey;y MNyhrid Mfpatw;why;
FLk;gj;jpw;F xU ce;J rf;jp fpilf;fpd;wJ.
kw;wr; rka r%fq;fisf; fhl;bYk; gq;Fg; gzpahshpd; top fhl;ly; gq;F
kf;fSf;F rpwe;j gadhf mikfpd;wJ. trjp gilj;j FLk;gq;fs; gq;fpy; Kd;Dhpik ngWtJ
,d;iwa fhyr; R+oypy; vjhHjkhfNt ,Uf;fpd;wJ.
2.5
kzKwpTk; ghjpf;fg;gLNthUk;
,e;jf; fhyf;fl;lj;jpy; mjpfg;gbahd
kzKwpTfs; Vw;gLfpd;wd. jw;NghJ ,e;jpahtpy; kzKwpT vz;zpf;if mjpfhpj;J tUfpwJ. nrd;idapy; 2011 ,y; kl;Lk; 3742[3]
kzKwpTfis ePjpkd;wq;fs; toq;fpAs;sd. ,J kl;Lky;yhky; kzKwptpd;wpg; gphpe;J
tho;Nthhpd; vz;zpf;ifAk; mjpfhpj;Js;sJ.
kzKwpTfSf;fhd fhuzq;fs;:
·
fztH>
kidtp ,UtUk; Ntiyf;Fr; nry;tjhy; Vw;gLk; jdpj;j epjp epiyj;jd;ik.
·
mjpfhpf;Fk;
etPdkakhf;fy;.
·
ngz;fSf;F
Mjuthf ,aw;wg;gLk; rl;lq;fs;.
·
ngz;fs;
jhq;fs; jdpNa tho;tijr; Rikahff; fUJtjpy;iy.
·
jpUkzj;jpw;F
Kd;ghf Vw;gLk; fhjy; mjpfhpg;gjhy;> ,jdhy; jpUkzj;jpw;Fg; gpd; FiwAk;
md;G> ek;gpf;if kw;Wk; Ghpjy;.
·
jdpj;j
epjp epiyj;jd;ik ,Ug;gjhy; cz;lhFk; rfpg;gpd;ik.
·
fhjy;
jpUkzq;fspYs;s Fiwe;j xg;GuTj; jd;ik.
kzKwpTfs; rpy rkaq;fspy;
nfhLikg;gLj;Jk; Mzhjpf;fjpypUe;j tpLjiyahfTk; kWkzj;jpw;F tha;g;ghfTk; ,Uf;fpwJ. gy Ntiyfspy; kzKwpT ngWk; ngz;fspd; epiy
R+dpak;jhd;. Kd;kzj;jpd; NtjidNa NghJk;
,dp jpUkzNk Ntz;lhk; vd;W gae;J ngz;fs; jdpikNa tpUk;Gfpd;wdH. kzKwpthy; ghjpf;fg;gLNthH ngUk;ghYk; ngz;fSk;
Foe;ijfSk;jhd;.
,ay;ghd FLk;gr; R+oiyf; nfhLf;f Kbahky; kzKwpT ngw;w
ngz;fs; jq;fspd; Foe;ijfis vd;djhd; rpwg;ghf tsHj;jhYk; mit r%fj;jpy; FiwghL
cs;stHfshfNt fUjg;gLfpd;wdH. xU-ngw;NwhhH
kl;Lk; ,f;FLk;gj;jpy; ,Ug;gjhy; Foe;ijfspd; kdepiy ntFthfg; ghjpf;fg;
gLfpd;wJ. Foe;ijfNs rKjhaj;jpd; vjpHfhyk;.
Mifahy; FiwAs;s rKjhaj;ijNa kzKwpTfs; toptFf;fpd;wJ.
2.6
,iwapay; Nfs;tpfs;
1. %nthU ,iwtdpd; r%fk; ,d;iwa
FLk;gq;fSf;F tpLf;Fk; ek;gpf;if rthy;fs; vd;d?
2. Mjhk;- Vths;> Njhgpah]pd; FLk;gk;
kw;Wk; Kjy; Vw;ghl;L FLk;gq;fsplkpUe;J FLk;geyDf;fhf nrhy;Yk; nra;jp vd;d?
3. rPuope;J fplf;Fk; ,e;jf; fhy R+oypy;
jpUf;FLk;gk; fhl;Lk; ek;gpf;ifA+l;Lk; ghijfs; vd;d?
4. fztH - kidtp tho;itg;gw;wp ,NaRtpd;
Nghjid vt;thW Gj;JapH jUtjhf mikfpwJ>?
5. FLk;g tho;it Fiyf;f gy fhuzq;fs;
,Ue;jhYk; gTypd; ek;gpf;ifA+l;Lk; fUj;Jfs; vt;thW FLk;g tho;itg; ghJfhf;fpd;wd?
6. jpUkzk; vd;w mUl;rhjdj;ijj; jpUr;rig
vt;thW ,Uf;f Ntz;Lk; vd Mrpf;fpd;wJ?
7. gpw rkaq;fs; jpUkzk; kw;Wk; F;Lk;g
tho;it vt;thW fw;gpj;Js;sd?
8. jpUkzk; vt;thW mUspd; ntspg;ghlhf
mikfpd;wJ.?
9. ew;fUiz $Wk; xw;Wik jpUkztho;tpy; fztH
kidtpapilNa Vw;gLk; md;GwtpYk; gfpHtpYk; jpahfj;jpYk; vt;thW nfhz;lhlg;
gLfpd;wJ?
10. ngz;zpak; $Wk; rkj;Jtk; jpUkzj;jpy;
vt;thW epiy epWj;jg;glyhk;?
11. Nahthd; ew;nra;jpapy; “vy;NyhUk;
xd;wha; ,Ug;ghHfshf” vd;w ,NaRtpd; nrgk; ,d;iwa
FLk;gq;fSf;F vt;tsT nghUe;Jk;?
3.0
,iw xspapy;
3.1
%nthU ,iwtd;
fpwpj;jt ek;gpf;ifNa %nthU ,iwtdpy;
Cw;nwLf;fpd;wJ. %d;W ntt;NtW
Ml;fshf ,Ue;jhYk; xU flTshf ,Uf;fpd;wdH
vd;gJ rpwg;G. %d;W egHfs; gy ghpkhzq;fspy;
ntt;NtW jdpj;jd;ik tha;j;jpUe;jhYk; mtHfspy; xw;WikAk; rkj;JtKk; cs;shHe;j
epiyAk; jhd; ek;ik tpaf;f itf;fpd;wJ.
xw;Wik vd;why; jdpj;J gpwiu tpyf;fpr; nray;gLtjpy;iy. gphpf;f Kbahj xU fyg;glkw;w cwT Cw;nwLg;gJjhd;. rkj;Jtk; vd;why; ahUk; caHT jho;T vd;Dk;
epiyapy;yhky; midtUk; rkk; vd;w Vw;wj; jho;tpy;yhj epiyNa MFk;. cs;shHe;j cwTepiy vd;W nrhd;dhy; mq;Nf
jq;fsplk; xU jdpg;gl;l cwTk; GhpjYk; ,izg;gijg; ghHf;fpd;Nwhk;. ,e;j Mokhd cwT jhd; jdpj;jd;ik tha;e;jjhf
,Uf;fpd;wJ. jpUkztho;tpy; rpwg;ghf fztH-kidtpapilNa
,g;gbg;gl;l xw;Wik> rkj;Jtk; kw;Wk; cs;shHe;j cwT gpujpgypf;f %nthU ,iwtdpd;
KwpTglhj cwTf;Fk; gpsTglhj md;gpw;Fk; rhd;W gfHfpd;wdH. fztH - kidtpapilNa ,g;gb XH ,iwikahd md;G
Cw;nwLj;jhy; mq;F tho;T gpwf;Fk;> kdpj khz;G caUk>; FLk;g tho;tpd; Nkd;ik
fhf;fg;gLk;.
3.2
jpUtptpypak; fw;gpf;Fk; ghlk;
jpUtptpypaj;jpd; njhlf;fk; Mjhk;-
Vthspd; jpUkzj;jpy; Muk;gpj;J ,Wjpapy; nrk;kwpapd; jpUkzj;jpy; KbtilfpwJ. njhlf;fj;jpy;
flTs; Mjhk;-Vthisg; gilj;J (khDlj;ijg; gilj;J ) “,UtUk;
XH capuhf ,Ug;gH” (njhE} 2:24) vd;W vgpNua nkhopg;nghUs;gLfpd;wJ.
clystpy; kl;Lky;y caphpYk; ,tHfs; xUtNu vd;gJ ,e;j trdj;jpd; Mokhd nghUshf
mikfpd;wJ. flTSila gilg;gpy; kdpjHfs; Nkyhd ,lj;ijg; gpbf;fpd;wdH. rkkhfg;
gilf;fg;gl;l kdpjHfs; md;gpy; ,ize;J tho;tijNa ,iwtd; tpUk;GfpwhH. ,e;j md;Gwit
mbg;gilahf itj;Jj; jhd; A+j rkaKk; fpwp];jt rkaKk; fztH - kidtp cwit ,iwtd;
Vw;gLj;jp ,izj;j cwthf jpUkzj;ijf; nfhz;lhLfpd;wd. ,j;jifaj; jpUkz cwitNa jpUtptpypaj;jpd; gy E}y;fspy; Gdpjkhd cwthf Kd;itf;fg;gLfpd;wJ.
3.3
jpUf;FLk;gk; fhl;Lk; ghij
fztH - kidtp vd;whNy mq;F tUk; Kjy;
fl;lis md;Gjhd;. ,NaR> khpahs;>
R+ir Mfpa %tH mlq;fpa FLk;gj;ijj; jhd; ehk; jpUf; FLk;gk; vd;fpNwhk;. jpUf;FLk;gk; vd;W ,f;FLk;gj;ij Vd; miof;fpNwhk;? fztH> kidtp> gps;is vd;fpw cwit ,iwtd;
Vw;gLj;jpapUf;fpwhH. ,iwtdpd; kPl;Gj;
jpl;lj;ij KOikahf epiwNtw;Wk; FLk;gkhf ,f;FLk;gk; ,Ue;jpUf;fpd;wJ. ntt;NtW ,ay;Gfis ,tHfs; nfhz;bUe;jhYk; ,tHfs; NrHe;J
kfpo;r;rpahf tho;e;jpUf;fpd;wdH. ,tHfsplk;
xw;Wik> md;G> ,iwgak>; ,Ue;jikahy; ,tHfs; fpwpj;jt FLk;gq;fSf;F
Kd;khjphpahf ,Uf;fpd;wdH. vy;yhtw;wpw;Fk;Nkyhfj;
jq;fisf; fle;J> jq;fis ,oe;J gpwUf;fhf tho;e;Js;sdH.
,d;iwa fztH - kidtp cwtpy; jd;idf; fle;J
gpwiu md;G nra;jy; vd;fpw kpfr; rthyhd md;gpw;F jpUf;FLk;gk; xU tpe;ijahf
cs;sJ. ,iwtd; Vw;gLj;jpa xt;nthU FLk;gKk; jpUf;FLk;gkhf tho
miof;fg;gl;bUf;fpd;wJ. ,iwg;gw;Wk; (Njhgp 8:4-9) ,iwad;Gk; ,Uf;Fk; FLk;gq;fspy;
cwT NkNyhq;fpapUf;Fk;. kiy Nghy;
gpur;ridfs; te;jhYk; mJ mf;FLk;gj;ij xd;Wk; nra;a ,ayhJ. miz fle;j
md;G ,Uf;Fk; ,lj;jpy; epge;jid ,Uf;fhJ.
,f;fhyf;fl;lj;jpy; chpikiag; gw;wp fztH - kidtpaH mjpfk; NgRfpd;wdH. Mdhy;
flikiag;gw;wpg; Ngr ,d;W kpff; FiwthdtHfs; kl;LNk.
3.4
,NaR vd;d nrhy;fpwhH
jpUkzj;jpd; gphpahj; jd;ikiag;
gw;wpAk;> Nkd;ikiag; gw;wAk; jpUkz cwitg; gw;wpAk; ,NaR kj;NjA 19: 1-12 ,y; njspthf
$WfpwhH. ngz;Zhpik ghjpf;fg;glhky; ,Uf;fTk; kzKwpNt ,Uf;ff; $lhJ vd;W ,NaR tpUk;GfpwhH. khw;F 10:1-12 ,y; ,NaR
kzKwpit fLikahfr; rhLfpwhH. jpUkz cwT flTshy; Vw;gLj;jg;gl;l cwT vd;Wk; >
,e;j cwit Kwpf;f kdpjHfSf;F mjpfhuk; ,y;iy vd;Wk; $WfpwhH. kzKwpTf;fhdj;
jFe;jf; fhuzj;ijAk; $Wfpd;whH. fztH jk; kidtpia vj;jifaf; fhuzj;jpw;fhfTk;
kztpyf;Fr; nra;Jtplyhk; vd;fpw epiy ,Ue;jjhy; flTs; njhlf;fj;jpy; je;j jpUkz
newpf;F Kuzhf ,Ug;gij ,NaR Fwpg;gpLfpwhH (njhE} 1:27). kf;fspd; fbd cs;sj;jpd;
nghUl;L xU fhyj;jpy; NkhNr jsHj;jpa rpy mbg;gilj; jpUkz newpfis ,NaR kPz;Lk;
typAWj;Jfpd;whH( kj; 5:31-32). fztH - kidtpapd; xd;wpg;igAk; jdpj; jd;ikAk; gw;wp ,NaR
gfpuq;fkhf mwptpf;fpd;whH. jk;gjpapdhpd; gpukhzpf;fj; jd;ikiaAk; ,NaR
typAWj;jpf; $Wfpd;wH. Mf jpUkzj;jpy;
Vw;gLk; cwit Gdpjkhff; fUJk; ,NaR nra;j Kjy; mUs; milahsKk; (Nahth 2:1-2) ,j;jifa cwT ,izT tpohtpy;jhd; vd;gij
kwj;jyhfhJ.
3.5
jpUr;rigj; je;ijaHfs;
jpUr;rigj; je;ijaHfshd njhj;Jy;ypad;
kw;W eprh fpuNfhhpaUk; jpUkzkhdtHfs;. FLk;gtho;tpd; ,d;gk; kw;Wk; mtw;wpd;
flikfisj; Jd;gkhfNt ghHj;Js;sdH. jpUr;rigj; je;ijaHfshd mF];jpdhH kw;Wk;
nghd;tha; mUsg;gH mfpNahH fd;dpikia caHthff; fUjp jpUkzj;ijAk; FLk;gtho;itAk;
RikahfTk; ,iwahl;rpf;F vjpuhdjhfTk; rpe;jpj;jpUf;fpd;wdH. fhHNj[; rpg;gphpad;
jpUkzj;jpw;Fk; Foe;ijg; Ngw;wpw;Fk; gilg;gpd; njhlf;fj;jpy; ,Ue;j mtrpak; ,g;NghJ
,y;iy vd;W $Wfpd;whH. cyfpy; khdplH Vw;nfdNt ngUfpapUg;gjhy; ,g;NghJ jpUkzj;jpw;Fk;
Foe;ijg; Ngw;wpw;Fk; Njit ,y;iy vd;gJ ,thpd; $w;W.
3.6
gTypd; ghHitapy;
jpUkzj;ijg;
gw;wp gTy; mbfshH 1 nfhhp 7:3-5 fztH kPJ
kidtpf;Fk; kidtp kPJ fztDf;Fk; mjpfhuk; cz;L vd;W $WtJ rkj;Jt Gul;rpNa.
A+jg; ghuk;ghpaj;jpy; kidtp kPJ
fztUf;F mjpfhuk; cz;L. Mdhy; fztH kPJ kidtpf;F mjpfhuk; ,y;iy . kidtpf;Fk; fztH kPJ Mjpfhuk; cs;sJ vd;gJ xU rkj;Jtj;ijAk; FLk;g tho;tpy; fztH-kidtp
,Uthpd; gzpiaAk; nghWg;igAk; tpsf;Ftjhf mikfpd;wJ.
fztH kidtpahpd; elj;ijiag; gw;wp
vNgrpaH 5:21-33 ,y; gTy; $WfpwhH. ,e;jg; gFjpapy; gTy; ngz;;zbikj; jdj;ij J}f;fpg; gpbg;gjhf
njhpfpd;wJ. fpwp];J jpUr;rigapd; jiytH vd;gJ Nghy fztUk;
FLk;gj;jpd; jiytH vd;W $WfpwhH. fpwp];J
jd;id gypahf jpUl;rigf;F nfhLj;jhH. kidtp fztUf;F mbgzpe;J tho Ntz;Lk; vd;fpwhH.
,q;F jiytH vd;W gTy; $WtJ mbikg;gLj;Jk;>
mlf;fpahSk; jiytuy;y khwhf jd;idNa KOikahf fpwp];Jitg; Nghy toq;Fk;> Kd;
epd;W topelj;Jk;> jpahf cs;sk; nfhz;ltHfisNa.
vdpDk; ,d;iwa fhy fl;lj;jpy;
ngz;fspd; rkj;Jtj;ijAk; mtHfspd; Kw;Nghf;fhd tho;Tk; fztiuAk; tpl rpwe;j
jiyikj;Jtj;ijf; fhl;Lfpd;wJ. ngz;fspd; jiyikj;Jtj;jhy; nghWg;gw;w Mz;fshy;
Fiye;J Nghd FLk;gq;fs; ,d;W ey tho;T ngw;Ws;sd. NkYk; jq;fspd; tho;f;ifj;
Jizfis jq;fis jhq;fs; md;G nra;tJ Nghy jq;fspd; kidtpkhHfisAk; fpwp];J jd;id
,oe;J md;G nra;jJ Nghy md;G nra;a flik gl;bUf;fpd;wdH. me;j md;Ng mf;FLk;g
tho;tpd; mbj;jskhf mikfpd;wJ. mdNg midj;jpw;f;Fk; MzpNtH vd;W nrhd;d gTy;
(1nfhhp 13) FLk;gj;jpw;F mtrpak; md;G
vd;fpw xU %r;Rf; fhw;Wjhd;. fpwp];Jtpd; md;G jpahfj;jpy; cjpj;j md;G.
FLk;gj;jpy; fztH kidtpapilNa me;jj; jd;dyk; ,y;yhj jpahf md;Ng mf;FLk;gj;ij
tho;tpd; $Wfspy; fl;b vOg;gTk; epiyj;J epw;f;fTk; top tFf;fpd;wJ.
3.7
jpUr;rigAk; jpUkzKk;
jpUr;rig gyE}W Mz;Lfshf jpUkz cwT gw;wpAk; FLk;g
tho;tpd; Nkd;ikiag; gw;wpAk; rpe;jpj;J gy Mtzq;fis ntspapl;Ls;sJ. rpwg;ghf ,uz;lhk; tj;jpfhd; rq;f VLfspy; ,d;iwa
cyfpy; jpUr;rig vd;Dk; Mtzj;jpy; vz; 47
Kjy; vz; 52 tiu jpUkzk; kw;Wk; FLk;gj;jpd; khz;igg; Ngzp tsHj;jy; vd;w
jiyg;gpy; rpwe;jNjhH rpe;jidia toq;fpAs;sJ.
,d;iwa cyfpy; jpUkzKk; FLk;gKk; gw;wpAk; jpUkzk; kw;Wk;; FLk;gj;jpd; J}aj;jd;ikAk;
jpUkz md;igg; gw;wpAk; kw;Wk; FLk;gj;jpd; khz;igAk; vLj;Jf; $Wk; tifapy;
,g;gFjp rpwe;jNjhH ghlkhf mike;Js;sJ.
vz; 49,y; jpUkz md;ig gw;wp $Wk; ,g;gFjp “kzkf;fs;
ghrkpf;f md;gpd; topahfTk; nray;topahfTk; xUtH xUtUf;Fr; Rje;jpukhfj; jk;ikNa
nfhilahf ifasp;f;f mtHfisj; jpUkz md;G ,l;Lr; nry;fpwJ@ mtHfs; tho;f;if KOtJNk CLUtp epw;fpwJ”. fj;Njhypf;f jpUr;rigapd; kiwf; fy;tpapd; vz;
369 – 373 tiu vz; 1601-
1666 tiu vz; 2331- 2400 tiu jpUkzk;> FLk;gk;> ngw;NwhH elj;ijia gw;wpAk;
njspthd mwpTiufis toq;fpAs;sJ.
,e;j Vl;by; vz; 1666y; fpwp];jt
FLk;gk; “tPl;Lj; jpUr;rigahf”
cUtfg; gLj;jg;gLfpwJ. “mUSk;
nrgKk; ew;nray;fspd; gs;spahfTk; fpwp];Jt FLk;gq;fs; jpfo Ntz;Lk; vd;gNj ,jd;
ikag; nghUs;”.
jpUr;rigapd; rl;l Gj;jfj;jpy; vd;
1055 Kjy; 1165 tiu jpUkzk; kw;Wk; FLk;g tho;T gw;wp njspthd rl;;lq;fis
tiuaWj;Js;sJ. vz; 1056y; “fpwp];Jt jpUkzj;jpd; xw;WikiaAk;
gphpah jd;ikiaAk;” Rl;bf;fhl;Lfpd;wJ.
jpUje;ij
,uz;lhk; Nahthd; gTy; 1995y; FLk;gj;ijg; gw;wp vd;w Rw;Wkliy
vOjpAs;shh;. ,e;j kly; jw;fhy FLk;gq;fs;
vjph;nfhs;Sk; rthy;fis ikag;gLj;jp
fpwpj;jtf; FLk;gq;fspd; gjpypWg;G vt;thwhf ,Uf;f Ntz;Lk; vd;fpwJ. KOf;f KOf;f FLk;gq;fis ikakhf itj;J
tiuag;gl;Ls;s ,k;kly; fztH - kidtp> gps;isfs; kw;Wk; vjph;fhy rKjhaj;ij Kd;
epWj;jp rpwe;j mwpTiufisAk; FLk;gj;jtUf;Fj; Njitahd gy ghpe;JiufisAk;
nra;fpd;wJ. “vy;NyhUNk
FLk;gj;jpypUe;J te;jth;fs;,
kdpj ,dNk xU
FLk;gk;”[8] vd;w ghlj;ij ,J ekf;Ff; fw;gpf;fpd;wJ.
3.8
vy;yhUk; xd;wha; ,Ug;ghHfshf
Nahthd;
17:21 ,y; ,NaR “vy;yhUk; xd;wha; ,Ug;ghHfshf”
vd;W nrgpf;fpwhH. ,NaRtpd; gphpahtpil kw;Wk; FUj;Jt nrgg; gFjpapy; ,g;gFjp
,lk;ngw;Ws;sJ. ,r;nrgk; midj;J fztH - kidtp kw;Wk; FLk;gj;jpdUf;Fk;
nghUe;jf;$baNj. FLk;g cwTfspy; cury; Vw;gLtJ ,ay;ghd xd;W jhd;. FLk;gj;jpy;
xg;GwT vd;w nfhil ,y;yhky; cwT Kd;Ndhf;fp efu KbahJ. rpwpa gpur;ridf;Fk; $l
kzKwpT ngwf;$ba R+oy; ,d;W tsHe;J tUfpd;wJ. ,jdhy; ghjpg;Gf;Fs;shtJ ,d;iwaf;
FLk;gq;fSk; tUq;fhyf; re;jjpAk; jhd; . jpUkz ehs; Kjy; tho;T KOtJk; xUtUld;
xd;wha; tho;tJ vspjhd nray;yy;y. ,q;Fjhd; jpUkz tho;tpd; jdpr;rpwg;Gk; fdhfdKk;
,Uf;fpd;wd. ,d;W xg;Gwtpd;wp rpjWz;L fplf;Fk; fztH kidtpf;Fj; jhd; ,d;W kPz;Lk;
,ize;J tho top tFf;fg;gl Ntz;bapUf;fpd;wJ. fztH kidtpapd; xw;Wik FLk;g
xw;Wikf;Fk; FLk;g xw;Wik r%f xw;Wikf;Fk; r%f xw;Wik kdpj ,dj;jpd; xw;Wikf;Fk;
tpj;jpLfpwJ.
3.9
gpw rkaq;fspd; rpe;jidfs;
,e;J
rkaj;jpy; jpUkzKk; FLk;g tho;T XH ,d;wpaikahj rka, r%ff;
flikahFk;. FLk;gtho;tpy;> fztH-kidtpapd; cwT Gjpa rKjhaj;ijg; ngw;nwLg;gjpy;
kpf Kf;fpakhd xd;whff; fUjg;gLfpd;wJ.
jpUkzk; tho;tpd; epiwthd jUzkhfg; ghh;f;fg; gLfpd;wJ ( gftj;fPjh 12
mjpfhuk;)
ngsj;j
rkaj;jpYk; ,];yhkpa rkaj;jpYk; jpUkzk; XH mUs; milahskhfg; ghh;f;fg;gLtjpy;iy. ,J
xU xg;ge;jkhfNt fUjg;gLfpd;wJ. vdpDk; fztH
- kidtp cwTk; md;Gk; Nghw;wg;gLfpd;wJ.
jk;kg; gjh III, 190 ,y;
fztH kidtpapd; cwT kw;Wk; flik gw;wpAk; Gj;jH $Wfpd;whH@ md;igNa Kjy; flikahf
nfhs;s Ntz;Lk; vd;fpwhH.
jpUf;Fuhd; 7:189 ,y; ,t;thW
$wg;gLfpd;wJ “xNu Md;khtpypUe;J cz;lhf;fg;gl;l
ePq;fs; vd;Wk; jpUkzj;jpy; xd;wha; ,Ug;gPHfshf.”
rPf;fpa
rkaj;jpy; jpUkzepfo;T ,uz;L Md;khf;fspd; ,izthfNt fUjg;gLfpd;wJ. ,tHfspd; Gdpj E}yhd Mjp
fpue;j; ,y; FU mkH jh]; gf;fk; 788 y; “
fztDk; kidtpAk; ,U cly; nfhz;l XH Md;kh” vd;W ek;gg;gLfpd;wJ.”
rkak;
Nfhl;ghl;il itj;jhYk; r%fj;jpy; fztH-kidtp vd;w mq;fPfhuj;ij ,d;W muRg; gjpTj;
jpUkzj;jpd; topahf toq;Ffpd;wJ. fztH - kidtpahf rlq;FKiwapNyh my;yJ rl;l
hPjpapNyh ngWtJ Kf;fpkhdhYk; ,J xU njhlf;fk;jhd;. md;whl tho;Nt md;igg; gfpHe;J nfhs;tJk;
FLk;gj;ij kfpo;Tld; ,Uf;fr; nra;tJk; fztH - kidtpapd; ifapy;jhd; cs;sJ. ,th;fNs jq;fspd; FLk;g ntw;wpf;F top
tFf;fpd;wdh;.
3.10
mUspd; ntspg;ghL
jpUkzk;
vd;fpw mUs; milahsj;jpy; FLk;gk; gpwf;fpd;wJ.
Mf jpUkzk; jd;dpNy mUisf; nfhz;Ls;sJ. “fpwp];JNt ,t;tUspd; Cw;whf ,Uf;fpwhh;.”[9] “fpwp];JNt kzkf;fsplk; Fb nfhz;L
jq;fspd; Jd;gNtisfspy; jplkspf;fpwhh;> kd;dpj;J Vw;W
xUth; kw;wtUf;Fj; Njhs; nfhLf;fr; nray;gLfpwhh;.”[10]
mUs;
md;G nra;fpd;wJ, gzp
Ghpfpd;wJ;
cWjpg; gLj;Jfpd;wJ,
Cf;fkspf;fpd;wJ@ kjpf;fpd;wJ> kd;dpf;fpd;wJ@
cjtp nra;fpd;wJ, tpLtpf;fpd;wJ,
thoitf;fpd;wJ. mUspd;
ntspg;ghL fztH - kidtpapd; jpahf md;gpy;> mjhtJ
mth;fspd; epiwfspYk;>
FiwfspYk;> Jd;gj;jpYk; ,d;gj;jpYk;>
cly; eydpYk; NehapYk;> rhtpYk; tho;tpYk; cld; gadpj;J Nrhh;Tw;w jUzq;fspy;
epiwtspf;fpd;wJ.
3.11
ew;fUizf; $Wk; FLk;g; ghlk;
jpUkzk;
kw;Wk; FLk;g tho;tpy; NkNyhq;fpapUg;gJ fztH -kidtpapd; gpsT glhj jd;ikAk;
gphpf;f Kbahj cwTg; gpizg;Gk;jhd;. jpUkz
md;G fpwp];J jd;idNa jpUr;rigf;F rpYitapy; jpahfkhf;fpa md;NghL cUtfg;gLj;jg;gLfpd;wJ.
ew;fUiz cwTf;Fk;> gfph;jYf;Fk;,
rkj;Jtj;Jf;Fk;>
jpahfj;jpw;Fk;> md;gpw;Fk;> epidTf;Fk;> xw;Wikf;Fk; milahsk;.
jpUkztho;tpYk; FLk;gj;jpYk; cwTg; gfph;jy;> rkj;Jtk;> jpahfk;> md;G>
xw;Wik> Mfpait Cw;nwLf;f ew;fUizapd; Nkd;ik ekf;F rpwe;j FLk;gg;ghlkhfpd;wJ.
,NaRtpd; clYk; ,uj;jKk; kdpjUf;F tho;T nfhLf;fpd;wJ. FLk;gj;jpy; tho;itg;
gpwUf;fhf thOk; NghJ mq;F ew;fUiz gpwf;fpd;wJ@ kw;wtiu thoitf;fpd;wJ.
3.12
ngz;zpak; nrhy;Yk; rk chpik
ngz;zpag;
ghh;itapy; fztH-kidtp cwitg; ghh;f;Fk;
NghJ mJ XH md;Gwit kl;LNk Kd; itf;fpd;wJ.
rkj;Jtkhd ,e;j cwtpy; mbikj;jdk; ,y;iy. kidtpiaj; Jizahshff; flTs;
gilf;ftpy;iy khwhf ,izahfNt gilj;jpUf;fpwhh; vd;gij njhlf;fE}ypd; %ynkhop
njspTgLj;Jfpd;wJ. MZf;Fg; ngz; rhp rkk;. MfNt
jpUkz cwT Vw;wj; jho;T Vw;gLj;j my;y,
khwhf Ntw;Wikia
xw;WikNahL nfhz;lhlNt. xUth; kw;wtiu epiwT nra;gtuhfNt cs;sdh;. ahUk; jpUkz cwtpy; Nghl;b NghLtJ fpilahJ. jpUkzk;
kw;Wk; FLk;gj;jpy; fztH kidtp mtuth; epiwNtw;Wk; flik ,Ue;jhYk; flikf;fhfTk;
tpjpf;fhfTk; ahUk; nray;gLtJ fpilahJ. cwtpy; rkj;JtKk; kjpg;Gk; ,Ug;gJjhd; ey;yJ. Vw;wj;jho;T ,Ue;jhy; mJ cwthf ,Uf;f KbahJ
khwhf FLk;g mlf;FKiwahfNt ,Uf;Fk;. ,UtUk; rkNk vd;w tpopg;Gzh;T tpLjiy tho;Tf;F
tpj;jpLk;.
4.0
4.1
Njitahd jahhpg;G
jpUkz
tho;tpw;Fj; jahhpg;G vd;gJ mtrpakhd xd;W.
gytw;wpw;Fj; jahh; nra;Ak; ek; kf;fs; tho;f;ifia tho jpUkzj;jpw;F Kd;
jahh; nra;tJ kpfTk; Njit. fztH kidtpahf Kjph;r;rp ngw;wth;fshf FLk;g nghWg;igg;
Rkf;fg; NghFk; Ntisapy; jFe;j jahhpg;G rpwe;j gydsp;f;Fk;. kdjstpy; gf;Ftk; ngw;wth;fshf ,Uf;f jpUkzj;
jahhpg;G tFg;Gfspy; jtwhky; gq;Nfw;gJ kpFe;j cjtpahf ,Uf;Fk;.
nghWg;gw;w
epiyfspy; fise;Jtpl;L,
jd;dykpd;wpr;
nray;glTk; gpsT glhj ,jaj;NjhL md;G nra;aTk; jahuhf ,Ug;gth;fNs FLk;gj;ij
ed;whf topelj;jTk; thoitf;fTk; KbAk;. cs;shh;e;jtpjkhd jahhpg;G fztH kidtpahf thog;
NghFk; ,UtUf;F kl;Lkpd;wp mthpd; FLk;gj;jhh; kw;Wk; ,th;fs; cUthf;Fk;
FLk;gj;ijANk ghjpf;Fk;. ey;y ghjpg;G
vjph;fhyj;jpy; ey;y gyidf; nfhLf;Fk;;. Mapuk; fhyj;Jg; gapUf;F jFe;j jahhpg;G
Njit jhNd.
4.2
jFe;j cld; gazpg;G
FLk;gj;jpd;
ez;gh;fSk; nrhe;j ge;jq;fSk; fztH - kidtpapd; cwit Nkk;gLj;Jgth;fshf ,Ug;gJ
rhyr; rpwe;jJ. FLk;gj;jpd; eyd;
tpUk;gpfs; fztH - kidtpapilNa ey;Ywit tYg;gLj;Jgth;fshfNt ,Uj;jy; ed;ik
gaf;Fk;. cwT rpf;fy; kw;Wk; gpur;rid
,Uf;Fk; NghJ fztH - kidtpf;F ,ilNa xg;GwT Vw;gLj;Jjy;,
mth;fspilNa R%f cwit
tsh;f;f topnra;jy; Nghd;wtw;wpy; FLk;gj;jpd; kw;w egh;fSk;, neUq;fpa
ez;gh;fSk; fUtpfshf ,Uf;fyhk;. cjtpahf
,Uf;fhtpl;lhYk; ,th;fSf;F njhy;iyahf ,y;yhky; ,Ug;gJ eyk;. FLk;gj;jpy; rhpahd
GhpjYk; xw;WikAk; Vw;gLj;JtNj ,jd; Nehf;fk;.
4.3
gzpahsHfspd; gq;fspg;G
gq;Fg;gzpahsh;fs;
Md;kPfk; kw;Wk; Nfhtpy; rlq;F topghLfspy; kl;Lk; ftdk; nrYj;jpdhy; kl;Lk;
NghjhJ. gq;Fg; gzpahsh; (FU) gq;fpd; midj;Jf; FLk;gq;fspd; Md;kPf FUthf ,Uf;fpwhh;
vd;gJ gyUf;F njhpahj cz;ik. gq;Fg;gzpahsh; gq;fpYs;s midj;Jf; FLk;gq;fisAk;
re;jpf;f Neuk; xJf;FtJld; mf;FLk;gq;fspd; eydpy; mf;fiw fhl;l Ntz;Lk;. mNjhL kf;fs; jq;fspd; gpur;ridfis te;J $wp
MNyhrid ngWtjw;Fk; vspjpy; mtiuf; fz;L NgrTk; mth; gq;fpy; ,Uf;f Ntz;baJ xU
ey;y gzpahsUf;Fhpa flikahFk;.
4.4
tpopg;GzHTf; fy;tp
xt;nthU
,isQDk; ,sk;ngz;Zk; jq;fspd; vjph;fhy tho;T rpwg;ghf mika Ntz;Lk; vd;W
tpUk;Gfpd;wdh;. FUj;Jt gapw;rpf;F gy tUlq;fisr; nrytplr; nrhy;Yk; jpUr;rig ,d;W
jpUkzj;Jf;Nfh my;yJ FLk;g tho;tpy;
- jpUkzj;jpw;F Kd; njspT,
jahhpg;G
Nghd;wtw;iw ,isNahh;fSf;F fy;Y}hpf; fy;tpapYk; ghlkhf itf;fyhk;.
- cstpay; gapd;w ey;yhNyhrfh;fs;
kw;Wk; FLk;gey MnyhrfHfs; cwTg; gpur;ridAs;s FLk;gq;fSf;F topfhl;lyhk;.
- jpahdk;> fUj;juq;F kw;Wk;
tFg;Gfs; FLk;gj;jpdUf;F Vw;ghL nra;ag;glyhk;.
- rpije;J Nghd FLk;gq;fis kPs; cUthf;fk;
nra;a top nra;ayhk;.
- kzKwpTfisf; $Lkhdtiuj; jtph;f;fTk;
cwTfs; Kwpahkypf;fTk; FLk;gey MNyhrfh;fspd; cjtpngwyhk;.
- FLk;gtho;tpd; Kf;fpaj;ij
czh;j;Jk; tifapy; jdpnahU jpUj;J}uhf FLk;gq;fisr; re;jpf;Fk; NghJ
typAWj;jp Ngryhk;.
- xg;Gutpd; J}juhf vy;NyhUk;
nray;glyhk;.
- Clfq;fs; topahdf; FLk;g eyd;
gaf;Fk; epfo;r;rpfs; ntspaplg;glyhk;.
- gs;spfspy; ghypay; fy;tpNahL
cwTf; fy;tpAk; Njitahf cs;sJ.
ey;y
FLk;gk; gy;fiyf; fofk;. fztH - kidtpAwT
ey;y FLk;gj;ij cUthf;Fk;. FLk;gk;
rKjhaj;jpd; mq;fk;. rKjhak; kdpj
,dj;jpd; $l;Lj;Njlypd; ikak;. ,k;ikak;
tsu tho xt;nthU kdpjUf;FNk flikAz;L. me;jf; flik md;Ng vd;why; NtW ve;jg;
gz;gpw;Fk; Ntiyapy;iy.
KbTiu
md;Gk;
mUSk; cilajhf ,y;yw tho;T kyu cjTtJ rkaq;fs;> r%fq;fspd; Kf;fpa gzpahFk;.
r%f> nghUshjhu> Rfhjhu> kUj;Jt> fy;tpj; Jiwfspy; ek; FLk;gq;fs;
Kd;NdWk; tifapy; NjitfSf;F Vw;g ,d;Dk; gy tsHr;rpj; jpl;lq;fs; tFj;J
FLk;gq;fspd; KOikahd eyDf;F toptFg;gJ murpd; flikahFk;. ey;y FLk;gq;fs;
cUthf;Ftjd; topahfj;jhd; ehk; ey;y kdpjHfisAk; ey;y r%fj;ijAk; cUthf;f KbAk;.
md;Gs;s FLk;gq;fNs ,d;gkhd> mikjpahd> ePjpahd> xw;Wikahd Gjpa cyfpd;
mbj;jsq;fs;.
Jizepd;w
E}y;fs;
my;Nghd;];>Nj. md;G ,jaq;fs; ,d;g cjaq;fs;> J}a
gTy; fy;Y}hp> jpUr;rp> 1995
Mde;j;>
kJiu. cile;J cUnfhLf;f> ew;fUiz
,iwapay;> ,ja ,iwapay; ntspaPL> nrd;id> 2000
Rg;ukz;ad;>e.
r%f-gz;ghl;L jkpof tuyhW> vd;nd];
gg;spNf\d;;];> cLkiy> 1991
nry;tuh[;>r.Nj. capuspf;Fk; cldpUg;G> itfiw
gjpg;gfk;> jpz;Lf;fy;> 2005
N[h> Vk;.V. cwT vd;gJ…
> itfiwg;
gjpg;gfk;> jpz;Lf;fy;> 2004
,uz;lhk; tj;jpf;fhd; rq;f
VLfs;> ,d;iwa cyfpy; jpUr;rig>
jpUkzk; kw;Wk; FLk;g khz;ig; Ngzp tsHj;jy;> Njly; ntspaPL> J}a gTy;
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